Advice for high school freshman was proffered by Eric Zorn and published in the Chicago Tribune, around the time his twins were heading there. With his permission, I included his Top 12 Tips in a little presentation I made for a young man my husband and I “mentor.” After I re-read the tips in the printed document that I sent to Nick, I realized they are great rules for everyone to live by — no matter their age, their station in life, their career path, or their family situation. Thank you for sharing, Eric Zorn. If only everyone followed your words of wisdom, the world would be a better place!
1. Leave nothing for the morning.
Before you go to bed, gather your books and assignments, pack your lunch, charge your cellphone and lay out your clothes. Drama and anxiety are no way to start the school day and are likely to cause you to violate pointer No. 2 …
2. Never be late.
Tardiness is a sign of disrespect to teachers and fellow students. When circumstances beyond your control make you late, always approach the teacher after class, apologize and offer a brief, honest explanation.
3. “To be interesting, be interested.”
That quote from Dale Carnegie’s 1936 best-seller “How to Win Friends and Influence People” crisply sums up the best way to get to know new classmates and acquire the reputation as a friendly person. Asking a question — not too nosy or personal, please — is a great way to start a conversation. And listening carefully to the answer allows you to follow up and keep the conversation going.
4. Remember names.
I don’t advise inserting them gratuitously into conversations, but “Hey, Mike” as you pass in the hall is much friendlier than just “Hey.”
5. Never gloss over unfamiliar words.
When some smarty-pants drops a word such as “gratuitously” on you, look it up, (www.dictionary.com is a terrific resource) even if you can kind of guess the meaning in context. Having a broad and ready vocabulary will not only help you on the standardized tests and college admissions exams, but it will also help you think and allow you to express yourself better. 6. Don’t sweat the “relevance” question.
A lot of what you’ll have to learn won’t seem important or directly related to your goals. And, honestly, a lot of it won’t be. Within a few years you’ll forget most of the facts you’ll stick into term papers and memorize as you cram for finals. What you won’t forget, though, is how to attack an assignment — how to research, analyze, criticize and refine; how to tell good ideas from bad ones. Also, some of those facts will turn out to be extremely relevant, the building blocks that will form the foundation of your career.
7. Dive into extracurriculars.
School sports and clubs are an excellent way to meet new friends, deepen or discover your interests and, down the line, add gloss to your college applications.
8. Get organized.
If you manage your time well, school will not make you nuts. Create an